Have you ever closed your eyes at night at the end of the day, and asked yourself, “How did we ever get to this level of frustration?” Sometimes we feel we spend the entire day angry or yelling at the kids.  Sometimes we just have to STOP, TURN AROUND, AND START OVER.  Then we ask ourselves how are we going to rebuild?

When starting to rebuild any relationship, an unbiased analysis of the present and past issues is helpful and productive to move forward.  Consult a friend, professional or clergy to help all parties involved.  Taking action for resolution is not accomplished very effectively alone. 

Our mental attitude is everything.  Turning around that negativity to a positive frame of mind and a positive relationship with our teenager is not an easy task. 

Let’s start by validating and affirming our children.  There are many new skills and attitudes which can change parenting into a more positive and affirming role.

I read this paragraph which was written many, many years ago, but still applies to any year and any home.  A loving home is timeless.

A roof to keep out the rain.  Four walls to keep out the wind.  Floors to keep out the cold.  Yes, but home is more than that.  It is the laugh of a baby, the song of a mother, the strength of a father.  Warmth of loving hearts, light from happy eyes, kindness, loyalty, Comradeship.  Home is the first school, and the first church for young ones, where they learn what is right, what is good, and what is kind.  Where they go for comfort, when they are hurt or sick.  Where joy is shared and sorrow eased.  Where fathers and mothers are respected and loved.  Where children are wanted.  Where the simplest food is good enough for kings because it is earned.   Where money is not so important as loving kindness.  Where even the teakettle sings from happiness.  That is home.