Dating violence usually involves abusive or aggressive behavior in a relationship in various forms.  The motivation most certainly will be to attempt to gain power and control over the victim.  It can include verbal, physical and emotional abuse in a variety of presentations.  This can include purposeful humiliation, destruction of personal items, blackmail, threats of physical bodily harm including slapping, choking, biting, pinching, kicking, shoving, hair pulling or any other type of physical force with or without a weapon. It also includes threats to prevent seeking medical attention.

Sexual abuse is any type of sexual activity to which you have not consented.  It may involve pressure to consent, the use of force, violence, or bodily injuries.  Being under the influence of alcohol or drugs and not being able to truly consent to sexual activity is considered sexual assault as well.

Stalking is a more passive violence, but can be just as threatening.  This includes someone showing up uninvited, watching or spying on you, tracking your schedule, giving you unwanted gifts, persistent phone calls, and sending threatening e-mails or letters.  The disturbing issue with stalking is the constant question of uncertainty or the level of violence and when it could strike.